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Sparkle on...đź’–

"Life’s too short not to sparkle”

It sure as hell is. Oh, I should tell you now: I have the vocabulary of a well-educated sailor. So if you're offended by the occasional colorful word...well, there's a big wide internet out there - choose your own adventure.

"Life's too short not to sparkle." It's also too short not to live authentically. “Authentic” is a word that gets thrown around a lot in personal development and, sadly, I’ve seen too many people who have used “authenticity” as a blanket excuse for bad behavior.

Being “authentic” and being “yourself” does NOT give you license to be:
* an unbridled asshole
* an emotional blackmailer
* an irresponsible steward of this planet and the human experience
* one of those unspeakable demons who will open a can of tuna on an airplane (WHY)

Nope, sorry. Self-responsibility still 100% applies.

Authenticity means you own who YOU are from a healthy and aligned place- not who you think you should be for others to be loved or accepted (hint: you aren’t the only human struggling with “never feeling good enough”). When you give yourself permission to be “you”, when you deeply know your own worth, when you consistently make choices in alignment with your highest good, when you understand how to be both compassionate and set strong boundaries when necessary - THAT is living authentically.

This blog is about the journey of embodying self-worth and stepping into a life that is authentically YOU.


“Joy” is a word that’s been coming up strongly for me lately. I’ve been meditating on the concept of joy, and how to embody it more deeply. Because joy feels […]

Joy

Tools

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Each of us has unique talents, gifts, strengths, and abilities. One of the hardest things in this world can be staying true to their expression, to who we authentically are.  […]

Worth

Worth

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“Knowing how to be solitary is central to the art of living. When we can be alone, we can be with others without using them as a means of escape.”— […]

Alone

Self-Love

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Fear. Fear is a mother f*cker. Fear keeps us small. Fear keeps us stuck. Fear keeps us from our dreams. When you peel back the layers, drop the smokescreens, ditch […]

Fear

Fear

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How many of you have flown on an airplane, even once in your life? Once is enough to know the mandatory safety announcement (that you completely ignore, but whatevs) tells […]

Put Your Mask on First

Worth

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Living an authentic life is an ongoing process for all of us, and has many elements. Here’s one I want to discuss today: Making choices in alignment with your highest […]

Own Your Choices

Healing

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“When we are upset, it’s easy to blame others. The true cause of our feelings, however, is within us. For example, imagine yourself as a glass of water. Now, imagine […]

Stop Blaming the Spoon

Healing

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I posted a video on this topic on my Instagram (@jwreyallday) a few weeks ago about an encounter I had while walking my dog. Today I was prompted by a […]

Hurt People

Relationships

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I hear it all the time. I can’t. “I can’t get healthy” “I can’t get over it” “I can’t get a handle on my finances” “I can’t breakthrough this block” […]

Make a Soul Decision

Healing

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