Who Gets to Drive?
“So...you want to be dead?” “Wh....what?” “Your goals. You’re aspiring to be dead?” “I...umm...what?” I could sense my new client questioning whether she’d made a grievous error in signing on to work with me. [...]
Finding Certainty
Certainty. It’s a human need. Certainty we can be safe, loved, sheltered. But what happens when everything suddenly becomes UNCERTAIN? When that which made a modicum of sense yesterday...makes none today? Remember more than [...]
Why Perfect Really IS Bullshit
We’re going to get a little exercise today. Those of you who have ever felt a deep need to be “perfect” or categorized yourself as a “perfectionist”, please stand up? Anyone who has ever [...]
Fear, Free Falls, and Freaking Love Yourself Already
Eleven years ago today, I threw myself out of a perfectly good airplane. Why? To prove I could face my fears and (hopefully) not die. To literally “take the leap” and trust that the [...]